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From an outside perspective, it can seem glaringly obvious what you need to do. For example: One of the first problems we deal with is that our brains will flat out lie to us and we very rarely realize it.Most of us have a misguided idea of how our memories work – that they’re perfect snapshots of a moment in time, recording and replaying everything with perfect clarity and accuracy. Those golden memories of the early days of the relationship when things were better are sharp and vivid and can feel more immediate while memories of all the fights fade quickly… Even memories of abusive or coercive behavior grow faint enough that we can excuse them as being “not having to break up with someone; we’re naturally loathe to hurt somebody we care (or cared) for, even when it’s necessary.Sure, every once in a while you’ll run into a thundering assbeast who casts people aside like used Kleenex, but However necessary the break up may be, years of experience and pop culture have taught us that the person doing the dumping is the bad guy.They’re the ones who aren’t invested enough, who break promises, who don’t care enough to make it work or aren’t strong enough to make it through the rough patches.
because they can’t manage to convince themselves that they need to.
Other times, people try to avoid breaking up with their partners because they worry about what it says about them.
One of the most common examples of this are people who realize they are no longer attracted to their partners.
There are some issues that come up that I’m sure I can handle. I like to go out with friends and play games, she’s more a quiet, stay-at-home type. I really dislike dealing with her when she’s drunk.
I thought I didn’t mind her weight but it turns me off and I don’t really enjoy sex with her.
Like many nerdy people, my hobbies don’t bring me in to social circles which contain a lot of women, so, dating has always been an uphill battle.